In our new column, "The Coolest Person In the Room," we're
asking our favorite nightlife pros (hosts, DJs, door people, promoters,
bar/club owners, club kids, bartenders, socialites) to tell us about who
they think is the one party person whose look is always on point, whose
energy is contagious, and whose scene is worth checking out --
basically, that person at the club who they've got their eye on and
think we all should know. In each installment, the previous "coolest
person in the room" will pass the baton and nominate someone else.
Ryan is a genius face wizard (makeup artist) and photographer. He is also my creative partner and one of my best friends. When he's not working for the legendary Pat McGrath, you can find him hosting the weekly 11:11, Holy Mountain or just stalk his Instagram, which I highly suggest.
He's a bona fide weirdo and creative dreamer. Most
people are completely content with being a shitty person or slapping on
a lazy look but he's a real artist in and out of the nightlife scene and
takes his art very seriously. Sometimes he'll let an idea come to him as
he goes, but most of the time, he'll carefully plan what he's going to
do and tramp all over the flower district hunting for the perfect
treasures to adorn himself with and plan the perfect face, thinking, so-and-so
will really love this, or this will go perfect with the theme, or I've
never gone in this direction too much lately so I'm going to go here
instead, or this will really work with the dress you just made me...the kid takes 3 to 6 hours to get ready and sometimes after 1 or 2
hours he'll wipe everything off and start over because he wants it to be
When did you guys first meet?
I first met him when I was hosting Greenhouse for Susanne Bartsch and
Kenny Kenny. He was just sitting in the corner staring at me like an
antisocial lil' creep, so naturally I went over to investigate. His face
was decorated in a beautiful rhythm that caught my eye and I gave him a
drink and forced him to get up and dance. The next day he wrote me on
Facebook and I invited him over for a slumber party a few weeks later.
We stayed up all night showing each other our art, talking about
projects we wanted to work on together and I told him that we were going
to be best friends...little did he know I was going to force him to
live with me just a few months later! As I got to know Ryan, we both
connected over how transforming oneself aesthetically is just another
version of playing dress up and how it gives you that extra bit of
courage to engage with others. Not only is he an incredible and
innovative makeup artist and photographer, but he is kind and
compassionate and I think that's really why people gravitate towards him.
There's not that ego that grown-ups get, just an effortless, whimsical
child-like aura that invites you in, and makes you want to play along.
What makes him unique in the scene?
He's not an egotistical asshole. He dresses up because he loves it, because he's inspired to do so...even if he's not hosting a party, he'll come dressed up and talk to everyone, make sure the people around him are happy and having fun. He doesn't give a shit about being cool or popular, he just wants to dress up, dance like he's in his own little bubble and giggle with his friends...but don't get it twisted, he's sweet, but he does have a backbone and does not tolerate bullshit from jerks -- or at least, he'll tell me and I'll go yell at someone!
What is your favorite memory you have of him?
He's such a humble and sweet kid, so I guess my favorite memories of him are when I look over and I see his confidence peeping through... he stands a little straighter, opens himself up and allows himself to shine.